Are You Guilty of Using Love as a Weapon?

Never Use Love as a Weapon in a relationship!.

Many people use love as a weapon without realizing it and at some time or another this can ruin a relationship. For example I have heard a girl say to a guy “you will do it  because you love me” There are many others ways that love can be used as leverage in a relationship even between a parent and children, to get either what the child or parents wants. 

Are you guilty of using someone’s feelings for you as a weapon?  In new relationships both partners will do everything possible to please each other, but as the relationship matures, this changes.

Build a loving trusting and mutually beneficial relationship.

When your partner asks you for something, or to do anything then it needs to be done with love and pleasure. If you find that doing what your partner wants starts to irritate you then your relationship is in trouble waters. This could be because of many demands placed on one or other partner. Support, caring, and attending to each others wants and needs should be a ongoing process if you truly love someone. 

If you ask something of your partner and they are unable to comply then there must be a reason for it. Rather discuss why instead of saying, “why didn’t you do what I asked?  I thought you loved me”. That is using love as a weapon.