Keeping her Satisfied in the Bedroom ( For Guys)

Many guys have emailed me asking similar questions which are how they can satisfy their sweethearts in the bedroom, so I decided to give a few pointers in this post, even though I have answered the queries personally. Maybe women do not know it but under all that bravado, men are terrified at hashing up their first intimate encounter in the bedroom, with fears of premature ejaculation, impotence, being too small body odors etc. Here are a few guidelines for keeping her satisfied in the bedroom, and there are also some superb guides on this blog that will teach you how to become a perfect lover for her thus cementing your relationship.

Yes she is very different to you in their intimate needs!

It goes without saying that by now you should know that men are stimulated sexually a lot quicker than women, and will also orgasm faster; and your sweetheart may just beginning to warm up while it is over for you. Foreplay is very important to stimulate her during sex, and if you do it with love and patience, you may even bring her to orgasm before you do. Download the FREE Sex Myths guide for men on this blog to clear up a few untruths about bedroom encounters, while it will also give you more confidence on keeping her satisfied in the bedroom. If you really have no idea on how to stimulate a woman, it may be a great idea investing in guides to do so. Going into detail on this blog on foreplay is not possible because it is an all age’s blog, but what I will say is use your imagination a little and explore and delight in the beauty of a woman’s body.

How to last longer in the bedroom for men

Once a man has been sexually satisfied then there is a cooling off period, while a woman can still remain stimulated afterwards. Cuddling your sweetheart close after you have been intimate is important, and you can whisper sweet words into her ears while you wait to become stimulated again. This means a lot to her (especially if you suffered premature ejaculation in your excitement), and by doing this will really give you brownie points. If you did not manage to hold back and were satisfied before she had a chance to be satisfied, kissing and cuddling her while whispering sweet words in her ears telling how much you love her can make up for it until you are ready again. The best way to last longer in the bedroom is foreplay as mentioned above, and a great idea for keeping her satisfied in the bedroom is stroking, and petting her first, and a good idea is keeping your underwear on to making sure you keep your distance to avoid becoming over stimulated and ejaculation.

Women understand more than you think.

Your sweetheart understands a lot more about sexual make up of a man than what you think and some are even flattered that you were so excited you could not hold back so do not let this tress you out too much. Size is also not important for keeping her satisfied in the bedroom but technique is. Your first time can be a disaster, but the second infinitely sweet and special for both of you. It is important that you are both ready to take your relationship to the next level and you an arm yourself with some useful information on becoming an expert lover with guides written by professionals.

Intimacy is important in relationships


Yes intimacy is very important in relationship and satisfying sex will definitely bring you closer together but it takes time to mature and discussing openly your likes and dislikes is very important. Just like communication in all areas of your relationship the same goes for discussing what you both enjoy in the bedroom. Talk openly about your fears and you will see women understand a lot more than what you think so there is nothing to fear because soon enough you will learn how to keep her satisfied in the bedroom every time you are intimate.

What To Do When She tells You She's Pregnant!

What to Do When She Tells You She is Pregnant

Perhaps right now everything in your relationship is just perfect, things are going great at school or college and life looks pretty rosy. You made out with your girlfriend a few times and have really enjoyed being intimate. Physically you seem to be the perfect match and the sex just gets better every time. One day you get a text message from her that she is desperate to see you, and of course you feel great because it is so nice to feel special and so wanted. You love her so… and it is great to know she is missing you…

When you finally get to see her later, a worried look on her face tells you something is wrong, seriously wrong and you wonder if she wants to break up with you or something. Then she drops the bomb and your girlfriend tells you she is pregnant. In one disbelieving moment your whole life seems to come crashing down around you, thoughts of your career, your studies, your parents flash in front of you…. Next to breaking up, this is one of the most devastating sentences any young couple never wants to hear.

We all know that a child is not for a day or a month or a year it is FOREVER, and a huge responsibly to bear for any young unmarried couple!!! You must collect your thoughts and think coolly! Immediately placing blame is the first thing that most partners start doing… Just remember it takes two… Now what to do?

First of all Discuss it between your selves calmly after you have absorbed the shock and weigh up the options.

The first step is to openly talk about what has happened with each other and what you are going to do about your girlfriend being pregnant. Both your lives have now changed in a big way and there are sensible options to handle these issues. Discuss how having a child will change your lives, your careers, your relationship. Do not place blame or get angry at each other, because it is both your fault. Even if precautions were taken, something like this can still happen and does. Forget about running away, having an abortion, or other drastic actions. Your girlfriend will need all the support she can get, and your love and caring will be a huge relief rather than anger and blame. Look for support and this should start with your parents…

Arrange a meeting with your parents

Get both parents; hers and yours together, and tell them calmly what has happened. It does not matter what their initial reactions are going to be. They may also be explosive and angry at what has happened initially and will take a littler time to absorb the shock. After they have finally cooled off they will be perhaps be able to make practical suggestions to you both on what the best solutions are going to be. It may be better to talk to both sets of parents as well rather than going through everything twice.

Better safe than sorry.

My advice; before taking the big step in a relationship and going physical, make sure to take sensible precautions which goes without saying…. Making love to each other is the ultimate commitment after all but there are going to be consequences. Invest in expert advice and guides for relationships which include advice on being intimate by checking out all the links on this blog. Your girlfriend being pregnant does not have to mean the end of the world!!

Something You Should Know About Your Soul Mate!!

Something You should know

Not everyone is lucky enough to discover their soul mate when they are young like I was and unfortunately she left to go and live in another country while I was too young to do anything about it. The day my sweetheart left me was the day I felt real heartbreak deep inside my very soul and for months afterwards I pined for what I had lost though we still exchanged letters for a while. They were never enough to heal the pain and actually made it hurt even more. Later even this communication ceased while we both got on with our lives in two countries thousands of miles apart. You will instinctively know when you have met your true soul-mate because the feelings surpass everything you will ever experience, way beyond physical barriers, and even what we consider love as a feeling. It comes even close to hating because of the deep feelings you have for your soul mate…

Never let them go.

If you find your true soul mate then you will know it, and if you manage to get together never let them go because you will truly regret it for the rest of your life! Although time passed and I found love again and even married the feelings had for my soul mate were never forgotten. When internet technology came about years later I looked for my soul mate without success and even with all these resources was never able to find her again. Naturally I looked for her under her maiden name of course never thinking that she would have gotten married down the line like I had with so much time passed. One day purely by chance looking again for her I found her mother had a website and amazingly enough I found her again. Though she is still thousands of miles a away we can still communicate which is something really special now that we have the internet. If you ever find your soul mate NEVER let them slip through your fingers because you will never find someone so special again. I believe only 1 person in 10 can find such a deep connection.

Precious relationships

Relationships are very precious to human beings and should be carefully cherished more than wealth. If you find someone to love then do everything possible to make it work, and by doing so your life will be complete. Your partner is your friend, your lover and someone to share life with. You are going to have your ups and downs but use the downs to strengthen your relationship and build an unbreakable bond. I have a special wife and family after 29 years of being together and have found fulfillment with also being able to now communicate and keep in touch with my soul mate. It gives me closure at least but the feeling that I have lost something always stays deep inside of me. When you find your true soul mate you will have one of the most powerful relationships ever so make sure that you never lose him or her when you do!

Can You get Yor Ex Back?

Can you get your ex back

Let’s face it when it comes to relationships it’s not always happiness, sunshine and rainbows. A relationship is a lot of work and once you start neglecting your relationship it will fail and not by your choice. When this happens it’s never easy to pick yourself up again and start your life out new. When you have lost the one you love the thought of can you get your ex back always crosses your mind and the truth is that you can get your ex back, all it takes is a little bit of faith. If your relationship is precious then no delay should be made in trying to get your sweetheart back because every minute counts, and if you have a broken heart it certainly is not a joke!

Can you get your ex back after cheating?

If you have cheated on your ex then the question of can you get your ex back becomes a little bit more tricky because now is the time to prove to your ex how sorry you are and how much you love them. You have to become honest with your partner and tell them why you cheated in the first place, what was the real reason behind your wrong doing. No body is perfect and everyone is bound to make mistakes but that does not mean that your partner does not deserve a proper explanation for what you did. If you are honest with your partner then you can get your ex back because love conquers all and all you have to do is find the way to show your partner how much you love them.

Get Your Ex to WANT you Back!

Get your ex to want you back

After being in a serious relationship going back into the single world is a lot more difficult than you think. If you are women you will either find yourself going on one or two dates, sitting there and comparing your date to your ex. The first thing many woman forget is that they do not have to enjoy the date they just need to know how to make the best of it because if your ex found out that you went on a date and enjoyed it he will ultimately be jealous and this is the best way to get your ex to want you back.

How to get your ex to want you back

If you have gone on a date and your ex knows but he still doesn’t want you back then you can always use the wonderful weapon that women posses, seduction. Phone up your ex after a few weeks from telling him you went on date, make sure you go out and buy yourself a brand new sexy outfit that will have him eating out of the palm of your hand. Organize an evening date with your ex and play the game of seduction and before you know it you will not only get your ex to want you back but you will also have him back within a few days.

Your Ex Girlfriend Wants to Get Back Together With You!

Ex girlfriend wants to get back together

Many woman don’t actually understand men and that’s something most woman are not afraid of admitting because men have a very strange way of expressing there emotions. On the other hand men do not understand that woman are fragile and if a woman loves a man they will stick to you, and fight for you so if your ex wants to get back together you as the rock of the relationship, the strong man that the woman needs you need understand that your ex will do whatever it take to get you back.

What to do if your ex girlfriend wants to get back together

If your ex wants to get back together with you and you don’t really know how you feel about her you rather need to sit down and think about how you feel and what your heart is telling you to do. If your ex girlfriend wants to get back together but you still need your space or time you need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel. A woman might not understand a man but love is a very strange thing and a woman will wait for the man she loves and only true honesty will make things right.

Make your Ex Boyfriend WANT you Back!!

Make your ex boyfriend want you back

Sometimes in life things happen that are not really suppose to happen, like your wonderful boyfriend just breaking up with you in the blue. You are still so in love and you don’t really understand why he has left you or what you are meant to do now. You can make your ex boyfriend want you back. This is a wonderful power woman have that we only use on desperate times like these. What you need to know is the right steps to get your ex back and you can use some excellent guides on this blog that will re leally help you make it a reality again!

Make your ex boyfriend want you back with these easy tips.

When your boyfriend leaves you without any real explanation then you know there is still hope. Most men break up with their girlfriends when they feel things get a little to rough for them or they feel a little smothered by you but you can make your ex boyfriend want you back by doing just three simple things. Firstly you will lose weight because this happens to every girl when they lose their man so rather embrace the weight loss and show off your new figure and make sure he can see you. Secondly you need to stop calling him or keeping any real contact, by doing this he will start missing you and thinking about you all the time. Thirdly make him see you are happy and you can live your life without him, showing him you are a strong independent woman.