Thursday, May 14, 2009

Loving & Caring Relationships


Loving relationships are based on trust, caring and respect in today’s modern fast paced lifestyles with lots of distractions around, it is hard work maintaining loving relationships. It is sad that divorce is as rife in today’s society as is cheating, plus relationships breaking up for all sorts of reasons. I find this sad that it is hard to find marriages and relationships where couples have been together for 10 years of more. I have been married for 26 years myself; many people question me on how I have managed to keep my loving relationship together. I have had relationship problems in the past. Fortunately I always looked further a field for guidance to save my relationship, and over the years we grown even closer together. When loving relationships encounter problems it is sensible investing in expert advice to help you & you will find this blog packed with everything you need.

Can you remember back to the first few weeks together soon after you got married, & when you were dating? No doubt you treated your partner special with kindness, love, and thoughtfulness. You shouldn't let that change now that you know them well. You have certainly heard the saying that ‘familiarity breeds contempt’; and is this what starts hurting loving relationships? Unfortunately, it does happen in lots of relationships that the longer people know their partners, the less kind & respectful they tend to be toward them. You begin to take your relationship for granted, and you can be assured it will start to suffer! Maintain love, respect, politeness and thoughtfulness always to keep your relationship bonds powerful. Your partner will return the same!

Getting the right advice means listening to people that can put their money where their mouth is. Anyone that is divorced cannot give you the proper advice on how to stay married, now can they, irrespective of why they got divorced in the first place. Most people get married because they love each other (besides some arranged marriages of course), so what happens that your loving relationships ends up in divorce?

When you are at the grocery store, or at a restaurant, or talking to a stranger, no doubt you treat the cashier or waiter with respect & politeness. This is the same way you treated your partner while dating, so why did you let that change? Maintaining loving relationships means treating your partner like you did in the beginning when you met them. They will always be thinking to themselves how wonderful, thoughtful & respectful you are to them if you do; plus this will keep loving relationships alive. Talk to the one you love the way you would to a stranger! If you were to record your conversation with your partner if you were angry or stressed, & played it back to yourself afterwards would you be ashamed??

Do Unto your partner as you do to others

When you were dating you probably regularly bought your partner candy, took them out for a surprise meal, or hugged & kissed at any occasion. Carry on doing this while you are married to maintain loving relationships. Be thoughtful & kind as much as you can, & like when you were dating, say it out loud every day. I love you. Need some more tips for loving relationships? Invest in these sensational guides written by an expert that has been dubbed as the world’s most romantic man! Click here, and Surprise your partner

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