Saturday, May 9, 2009

Commitment and Relationships


This is a question you will probably struggle with, especially if you have been hurt in a previous relationship. You don’t want to lose him/her and you also need to find out where the relationship is going? Having proper relationships skills is crucial to your success to creating the relationship of your dreams, with your soul mate & the one you truly are in love with. Invest in all the right knowledge and understanding of who you are and how much your relationship means to you, and this can mean a long lasting and happy relationship. Download this sensational relationship collection to guide you for building powerful unbreakable relationships

Physical Contact and Caring

Closeness and physical intimacy in relationships take time to develop. Proper intimacy is not just making love, but also touching, hugging, a smile of encouragement and understanding what a facial expression in your partner means. Sometimes you may not be in the mood for intimacy, but your partner will be. Always consider this, and try and be gentle and intimate, even if you do not feel like it. That is a part of being committed to making the relationship work. You must know how to handle your own emotions, and those of your partner, and this also means being prepared to communicate and compromise.

Communication and balance

Can you discuss things together without getting angry? Can you say no to your partner, and can they say no to you, without you becoming annoyed? If you find this hard, and you always want your own way, then you may not be ready for a full committed relationship. Perhaps you need work on your communication and understand that a relationship is always going to be about compromise. Otherwise you will be ruling your partners’ life or if you are afraid of how they will react, you may be ruining your life if you start a committed relationship, because you are not ready!!

Staying in Touch with relationship quality time.


Fast pace lifestyles, and pressure careers start making couples drift apart. If it is a hassle to phone and keep in touch, or make quality time to spend together then you may not be ready for a committed relationship. A simple text message, email, phone call, or note in a lunchbox or briefcase; is thoughtful and loving. Don’t end up taking your relationship for granted… ever. Ask your partner how things were at work at the end of the day. Take time to listen, and do your utmost to spend quality time together as much as you can. That is real commitment to your relationship!

Flower and Gifts

A thoughtful gift, a bunch of flowers, a special dinner, is all ways to show you are committed and loving in a relationship. Continue to give small gifts or do thoughtful deeds and don’t stop either. These small efforts on your part are what keep a relationship alive. If they are a hassle already, you are not committed to your relationship, or you are not ready to commit to your relationship yet if you have not done so already.

Trust and commitment

You must truly trust each other implicitly before you commit yourself to the relationship; otherwise it is not going to work. If you are stuck with issues that you can not let go of, or still dwell on whether you can get back with an ex, then you are not ready for commitment. You must give yourself completely, and trust each other first. Do you know everything there is to know about your partner? Think about this!

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