Loving Relationships

Loving Relationships

Loving relationships are based on trust and respect and in today’s modern fast paced lifestyles with so many distractions it is hard work maintaining loving relationships. It is sad that divorce is as rife in today’s society as is cheating and relationships breaking up for all sorts of reasons. I find this sad when it is not the exception, rather than the rule to find marriages where couples have been together for 10 years of more. I have been married for 26 years myself, and many question me how I have managed to keep my loving relationship together. As you can read here I did have some relationship problems, and yes at one stage it was almost over. Fortunately I looked further a field for guidance to save my relationship, and since then we have grown even closer together. When loving relationships encounter problems it is sensible investing in expert advice to help you and you will find this blog packed with everything you need.

Maintaining Loving Relationships

Getting the right advice means listening to people that can put their money where their mouth is. Someone that is divorced cannot give you the proper advice on how to stay married, now can they?, irrespective of why they got divorced in the first place. Most people get married because they love each other (besides some arranged marriages of course), so what happens that your loving relationships end up in divorce?

Can you remember back to the first few weeks together soon after you got married, and when you were dating? No doubt you treated your partner special with kindness, love, and thoughtfulness. You should not let that change now that you know them well. You have certainly heard the saying that ‘familiarity breeds contempt’; and is this what starts hurting loving relationships? Unfortunately, it does happen in many relationships that the longer we know our partners, the less kind and respectful we tend to be toward them. You begin to take your relationship for granted, and you can be assured it will start to suffer! Maintain love, respect, politeness and thoughtfulness to keep your relationship bonds powerful. Your partner will return the same!

Do Unto your partner as you do to others

When you are at the grocery store, or at a restaurant, or talking to a stranger, no doubt you treat the cashier or waiter with respect and politeness. This is the same way you treated your partner while dating, so why did you let that change? Maintaining loving relationships means treating your partner just like you did in the beginning when you met them. They will always be thinking to themselves how wonderful, thoughtful and respectful you are to them if you do, and this will keep loving relationships alive. Talk to the one you love the way you would to a stranger! If you were to record your conversation with your partner if you were angry or stressed, and played it back to yourself afterwards would you be ashamed??

Surprise your partner

When you were dating you probably regularly bought your partner candy, took them out for a surprise meal, or just hugged and kissed at any occasion. Carry on doing this while you are married to maintain loving relationships. Be thoughtful and kind as much as you can, and like you were dating say it out loud every day. I love you. Need some more tips for loving relationships? Invest in these sensational guides written by an expert that has been dubbed as the world’s most romantic man! Click here