Sunday, March 7, 2010

Great Relationship Tips

Relationship Tips

When you are dating you no doubt do everything possible to make your partner happy and these simple things should be kept up even after you are married to keep your relationship unbreakable! After you have gotten married, or when have been together for a long time, the novelty of the relationship can fade. Sure you love each other very much but what causes problems is that you both start neglecting to show each other that you still care and eventually you can start feeling like friends or roommates sharing a house. You will see in all the posts a number of useful relationship tips and what I have always mentioned is the fact that it is the small things that take little effort that are the glue that hold your relationship together. Let me refresh you on a few of these. You will also find some great relationship guides in links all over this blog. Invest in them because they are certainly worth it!!


1. Communication is the key. Never neglect the Small Talk

After a hard day’s work, or when you are together, take time to chat with your partner. Ask them how their day was for example. Research has proven that couples who communicate with each other daily even through regular small talk will argue and fight less throughout their relationship. Chat about everyday things, like the latest news, a bit of gossip about the days work etc. make sure you also listen to what your partners says because it is a two way street. This is one of the most important relationship tips


2. Look Your Partner in the eyes.

Make eye contact with your partner when you talk to them. Oddly enough partners will start avoid doing this naturally. When you were dating you always made eye contact with him/ her. Perhaps familiarity with each other leads to less eye contact while you are talking to each other.. Make more of an effort to look them in the eyes as much as possible.


3. Regular Physical Contact

A kiss here and a hug there is important to show your partner he or she is still very desirable and you care about them. It does not have to be sexual either but having said that it can help increase physical intimacy as well. Holding hands, a hug often, stroking their hair, a pat on the back, all do wonders to keep your relationship alive. This is another very important relationship tip. Do so while you are in public places as well because your partner will feel special and wanted.


4. Appreciate your partner

Show the one you love you still appreciate them. Focus on the good things about your partner and always be sure to praise them when they look good and thank them when they do something for you. Good manners s is a way of showing appreciation. Remember the things that attracted you to your partner while dating? Focus on these points and renew your appreciation for them by letting them know. Honest praise goes a long way but keep it that; Honest!!


5. Plan special Time together & Away from each other

You both need special time alone but at the same time space for yourself. Give your selves time out to do the things you want alone and also time together to renew your bonds. Wanting to spend every moment with your partner can make them feel smothered and even cause problems in a relationship though it was well meant. Everyone needs time out, and you should trust your partner to go out with friends or do things on their own.
Lastly keep the romance alive in your relationship and you will find even more free relationship tips in the guide which can be downloaded on the left. If your relationship is going through a stormy patch then invest in real expert advice to help you. I have in the past like I mentioned on this blog when I bought the Magic Of Making Up. I have been married for decades now and I am glad I looked for help elsewhere when I did have serious relationship problems in the past

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