Friday, March 5, 2010

Are Your Ready For Physical Intimacy in Your Relationship?

When you are truly committed to each other in a relationship, then you are ready for physical intimacy, which is the ultimate sharing of your love. Physical intimacy is more than just sex or lust between two people but rather true sharing of love through loving contact between your bodies. Physical intimacy in your relationship is that of making love, the patient exploring of each others bodies, and the joining together as one. Up to now in your relationship, physical intimacy may have gone as far as just passionate kissing, holding hands, hugging, and perhaps heavy petting, (or second base as some call it while dating). You will both naturally know when you are ready for true physical intimacy in your relationship, which will mean unreservedly giving of yourself entirely to your partner! Most people in a new relationship will keep a safe distance from commitment in the beginning. In particular most women know that many guys are just after a girl for a good time, and will just as quickly dump her after they get what they want, maybe even hurting her in the process if she wanted more from a relationship.

If you are ready for deep physical intimacy in your relationship, and you know that you are perfect for each other for long term commitment, then you are ready to make love, being the final sharing to cement your bonds. If you have both openly shared everything else with each other in your relationship up until now, with no secrets between you, then perhaps you are truly ready for physical intimacy, which is the final step of complete commitment as mentioned above.

Plan everything to be perfect when you want to be ultimately, intimate with each other

Now you have discussed taking your relationship to the final level of sharing, and want to show your love with physical intimacy in your relationship, you want to make love with each other, so everything should be planned to be perfect. This point will eventually come when you have been intimate in all other areas of your relationship. If you both agree now that your relationship has matured way past that of being just a casual one, then you are ready for physical intimacy in your relationship, which is making love and not just sex.

With rampant sexual diseases and HIV aids, many girls, and even guys have preferred saving themselves until they meet the perfect partner. If this is the case then you are going to both be very nervous the first time, so it is advisable to take it very slowly, and this means planning to be undisturbed. If you are a guy, then you can glean some tips of sexually satisfying women on this blog in some guides, which is not as easy as everyone says. You will definitely want her to remember this first special experience with you, so take time to read a little on women’s sexuality if you want some advice. Look for guides and some free tips on my blog that will help you.

Physical intimacy of making love the first time.

No matter what everyone says; Making love with each other, and having sex are two different things entirely. When you make love, then you are attentive of each others needs, (as mentioned about guys satisfying their beloved girlfriends sexually above; Click here), and you want to make the experience one that will be remembered by both of you. You will also both be equally nervous, and perhaps also conscious of the imperfections your bodies because you see them differently through your partners eyes? Make sure to reassure each other, and enjoy true making love to each other.

In most relationships, partners will get to the stage of commitment to each other when they are ready for physical relationships, because making love is the final way of expressing your feelings to your partner. If you are apprehensive about how to satisfy your partner sexually whether you are a guy or a girl, then it may be a good idea to invest in a guide. This will be more so the case for men, if they are dedicated to fulfilling their loving partners, though there are also specific guides for women as well. When you are ready for physical intimacy in your relationship continue to openly communicate with each other about your needs, and all your fears will disappear in this area of your relationship as well.

Men will find a free guide to sex myths on this blog and there are some excellent books written by the experts all about building strong relationships. Love is precious and if you have found someone special you truly love, it is well worth committing yourself in all areas of your relationship down to the last frontier of physical intimacy.

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